The aim of this study was to investigate the relationship between religious attitude and resilience with family performance in spouses who defended the shrine of Tehran in 1999. The statistical population of this study consisted of all military families defending the shrine who lived in Tehran. According to the statistical population of the study, based on Krejcie Morgan's table, 185 families defending the shrine were selected. This number was randomly selected. Data collection tools include Sirajzadeh Religious Attitude Questionnaire (1998), Conner and Davidson Resilience Questionnaire (cd-irs) (2003) and Measuring the Performance of the Epstein, Baldwin and Bishtab (1983) family. The collected data were analyzed by descriptive and inferential methods through SPSS software. In this research, descriptive statistics were used to calculate the mean and standard deviation and report the frequency and percentage of frequency of research variables. Pearson or Spearman correlation was used according to the nature of data distribution. The results showed that there is a direct relationship between resilience and religious attitude with family performance in spouses defending the shrine of Tehran. In fact, the higher the resilience of the religious attitude and the spouses who defend the shrine, the better the family performance will be.